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A blog with a twist. Attempting to shape in words the tangled web of thoughts in my head, but always ending each post in the form of a positive conclusion, intended to reach out and help people looking for inspiration and advice. So yea....here goes....

Tuesday 13 September 2011

Friends? What? Where?

Moving city and then holding a 21st Birthday Party a few months after, is the strangest thing in the world.

Its one of those experiences where great realisations happen to you about two aspects of your life. Your Past situation and your Present situation. And at this event, it was all laid out before my eyes as clear as day.....


Inviting all the people that are still important today, from the Past. Giving them plenty of notice as there is understanding of the small journey that must be taken from the previous city, these things take a bit of planning.

The the invitiations to the people youve come accross in the new life, the friends made within the last few months. But the invitiations are a little different, a little more laid back approach is taken, as the time hasnt been long and the feeling of uncomfortableness or awkwardness is not wanted to be felt, so the impression is given that the party is more of an impromptu get together.

A few weeks pass and alot of thoughts are mulled through. Who from the the past will get on with who from the present? Who will match who? A glowing feeling apears as the realisation that everyone thats appreciated and loved in this phase of life will be together, having a blast - one of the greatest feelings human beings are to be blessed with in this lifetime.

The days draw closer to that one date, and slowly, one by one, the people from the past begin to drop out. Wont risk the normal daily grind of their lives. First, the closest people, then the others. The excuses in thier messages are lengthy, like they had to explain every bit of detail of their excuse, in case it made some difference. A bewildering concept - the purpose never understood.


One week before the party. A connection is made between two strangers. This other person understands the importance of the connection almost instantly. The invitiation is offered to the party and accepted. Strange to most, but feelings that are followed is the path to destiny.

The day of the party comes. The friends from the present, most of them dont turn up, and dont give a reason for it either. Its the way they have placed people as priority in thier head. However, not much thought is put into this, as this is a situation capable of change within the future. These people may realise that one day, they may need help. And who would be able to offer thier aid? Maybe the person whos party it is? Then they may think about turning up to the next one. Maybe when this happens it may trigger something in thier minds. The one and true valuable lesson of life that the human race need to grasp - That EVERY person you come accross in life play a vital role in that persons fate. Each person that passes through has something to teach, whether that person realises it or not, therefore it is important not to discard any1 as not a priorty.

Everyone has so much to teach, but even more so to learn.

Some people from the present turn up for the most self involved reasons, and leave quickly. Blame is not inflicted apon them, only pity that they allow each experience to be so shallow to them.

The person known only for 1 week turns up and is the heart of the party. Everyone else are people that know how important it is in life to forget about 'responsibilites' they have yesterday, tomorrow, or even in a few hours and actually enjoy yourself, actually make yourself feel alive - actually live. And also know how important connections are. They have an inclin that these connections are actually sparks of true love. And when this true love sparks, favours such as coming celebrate being 21 are dealth with without a shadow of a doubt.

Appreciation for this people exsits  so powerfully. But unfortuantly, with a great sadness, that there are so few of these people in this world.

Hurry up 2012 show these people the light, the higher level, the beautiful art of true love which created the universe. People need to be more connected. If every1 in the world was a tiny bulb, in which we all connected to each other, just imagine how brightly our world would shine in the galaxy ... or the living room.........