What was, What is, and Everything in Between: What Is Love? Ladies and Gentle beings, an Idiots guide....

Negative emotion is a building with many floors. built from bricks with many layers. Piece by piece it can be completely eradicated. Let me show you how, take a sneaky look.

The Demolition

Take away Anger

Youll be left with Jealousy

Rip apart Jealousy

Possesiveness will remain

Dispose of possessiveness

Only Attachment will conquer

Clear all of your attachments

A powerful realisation occurs

That all of the above derived from one source, that is actually only a product of the cunning imagination a creation of the brain.

Pure Fear. The sole reason for every mistake made by Human Kind.
People are always frightened.

Scared of what might happen.

Scared of what will happen.

Scared of what wont happen.

Scared of loosing control

Scared of inevitable change

It doesnt have to be this way. People dont have to suffer. Because there is a way of eradicating this minds image. This fear.

Acceptance

Such a simple but difficult task. The brains just noise, like an untuned radio. Switch it off and acceptance follows.

Once that has happened, there are no emotions created by the brain anymore. After everything has been stripped away, what is it that people feel? How does it feel? Where does it come from?

Its the one aspect that links us all to each other. Connects us to every living thing, from the micro organisms living underneath the rocks, to the highly intelligent beings living in the universe on distance planets. Its the energy deriving from inside that makes every atom within our body alive with power. It isnt an emotion. Its just being. As human beings, weve labelled it, given it a word, which is so mis used and misunderstood that confusion to whether it exsits or not dwells around the world.

We call it Love

I personally dont have a word for it. I know that its the reason why i do what I do everyday. And I also know that I have a hell of alot of it to give.

Instead of labelling it, Il desribe a fraction of its aspect, it potential in a short poem.

Love is not an attachment

Love is not a lie

It cannot be created

And it will never die

Loves not about grievement

or a figment of the mind

Its the unconcious power

That dwells in each inside

Its the scent of a flower

Its the blue of the sky

Its the sweet sound of music

That brings tears to your eyes

Its a constant reoccurance

a beautiful melody that you hear

Once felt for someone or something

It can never disappear

It can increase in intensity

if sparked by a connection

It provides incredible power

When mixed with affection

How can love hurt

With all its incredability

Its the fear of loosing it

That ends in stupidity

For it can never be lost

If at first it wasnt found

Its the meaning of immortality

Its always been around

Now this may sound insane. But I am always in love. And its not because I crave phsyical affection, or need any special attention. Its not because I need to fill a whole in my heart, or feel wanted by anyone. Because all of these feelings of attachments is not love. Its just another form of fear.

Its because for me, its just being. Living is loving. Not only do i fall in love with my beautiful surroundings, but i fall in love with people. I think people are amazing. I spot their best traits, thier talent, thier kindness and it just beautiful. And thats it. the connection is made, and never leaves. Whether its with a man, or a girl friend, a child, a parent, or a guardian. Its there

Soooo many examples.

1. My Mother was not part of my life for most of my childhood. Her parenting skills barely exsist, and her self-absorbtion has ruined my life on more than one occasion. I cannot think of one logical reason to love her. But I love her with all my heart,

Because love is without reason.

2. A Woman that came into my life as a child, and showed me the meaning of mother. Her inspiration was incredible. Within 1 year of living with us, I knew the type of woman i wanted to grow up to be. In every aspect, in my opinion, she showed me the meaning of beautiful femininity that i longed to aquire. As a 11 year old child, the mind is not so corrupting, so when love is felt for someone, its said without shame or embaressment. And it still exists to this day.

Because Love is not blood

3. An ex boyfriend that couldnt be more different to the person i am if you tried to match me with an extra terssistal. But love still appeared. I tried to prove my love by staying with him for so long against all odds, even if i was incredibly unhappy in everyway. But in the end I finished it.

Because love is not attachment. Its acceptance, its letting go, its sacrafice

4. One night, one man. One feeling. Pure and simple. His fear maybe the reason why he pretended there was nothing, and the reason why he continues his life burrying what he cant accept. But time has nothing to do with love.

Because Love is immortal, for in the face of love, time does not exsist.

5. A good friend. expereincing hardships together, but never loosing contact. Helping each other through the hurt of other loved ones. It created love very early, but was not percieved as love. I thought I just cared. But of course, what triggers the need to care? Years pass. But in just one night, the mind cleared. the signs the universe were giving me were everywhere. I followed them. An oppertunity appeared, and the love inside of me guided me into his arms. Then I knew what i felt in that moment always existed, and will always exsit.

Because love is destiny